You are whatsoever you are
[A sannyasin says: I feel w any love. I feel like a stone an just full of anger and hate an. I don't love you and I don't love anyone.]
[一个门徒说：我觉得自己心里无爱。我觉得自己像块石头，始终满是愤怒、憎恨和攻击。我并不爱你，我谁也不爱。]
奥修（OSHO）:
o it is perfectly good!
那么这好极了！
I'm not asking you to love me. There is no problem in it. If I ask you to love me and you don't, then there is a problem. I am not creating any problem for you. This is the way you are! Accept it; what else can you do? Just relax into it. You are a stone, so you are a stone. Stones are also very precious.
我并没有要求你爱我，所以这件事没问题。如果我要求你爱我，而你并不爱，那就有问题了。我不会为你制造任何问题。你就是这个样子！接受它，不然你能怎么办？放松。你是块石头，所以你就是块石头。石头也弥足珍贵。
Yes, precious stones are cold, even are cold. But what can you do? The stone cannot su take a jump an a flower; the stone will remain a stone. You can enjoy being a stone or you can be m being a stone, but the stone will remain a stone.
是的，宝石是冰冷的，即便钻石也冰冷。但你能怎么办？石头不会突然变成花，石头仍然是石头。你可以享受做石头，你也可以为做石头而痛苦，但石头还是石头。
And I don't see that there are any problems: a few stones are needed. The world has variety. All are not needed to be the same; this is how it is rich. And you are a beautiful stone, so there is nothing to worry about.
我看不出有任何问题：少许石头是需要的。世界丰富多样。不需要一切都一模一样，所以世界才丰富多彩。你是块美丽的石头，所以没什么好担心的。
If energies change on their own some day, good. If they don't change, then why waste time in th about ideas? Enjoy it! Mm? And you can enjoy it.
如果哪一天能量自己改变了，很好。如果能量没变，为何要把时间浪费在思考绝无可能的想法上？享受它！嗯？你能享受。
You are always asking me to give you some idea so that you can start f with yourself; and that I am not going to do. You ask from this angle and then from that, but it is the same thing. What you are asking is for me to support some idea in you so that you can start f with yourself.
你总是要我给你一些主意，以便你能开始跟自己对抗，我不会那样做。你从这个角度问，然后又换个角度，但事情还是同一件。你要我做的是去支持你的某些想法（主意），以便你能开始跟自己对抗。
You cannot remain w fight: you want to create some conflict, you want to create misery for yourself, and I'm not going to help you do that. I want you to be happy, and the only way to be happy is to be yourself as you are.
没有冲突（对抗）你活不下去：你想要制造一些冲突，你想给自己制造痛苦，我不会协助你那样做。我想要你开心，开心唯一的方式是做你自己。
Unhappiness comes when you start trying to be somebody else. So what is wrong in being cold? Hot people need a few col; it brings balance! (chuckling) Otherwise hot people will just burn up. Who will cool them?
当你开始试图变成别人时，痛苦就出现了。所以保持冷漠有什么错？热情之人需要一些冷漠之人，这带来平衡！否则热情之人会着火（兴奋起来）。谁来给他们降温？
There is no need to think about these things: that you don't love me or you don't love anybody. So what? It’s perfectly good! Enjoy this, that you don't love anybody. This is very good, because you will not be in trouble.
没必要考虑那些事：你并不爱我，或是你谁也不爱。那又怎样？这好极了！享受这一点——你谁也不爱。这非常好，因为你不会陷入麻烦。
Love brings trouble: the more you love, the more trouble -- anxiety an, the fear of rejection and this and that. You are completely beyond all that: nobody can reject you because you don't love at all. You are f with the world. You are a real sannyasin!
爱带来麻烦：你越爱，麻烦就越多——焦虑、痛苦、被拒绝的恐惧，等等。而你完全超越了这一切：没人能拒绝你，因为你根本不爱。你已经跟这个世界断绝关系了。你是个真正的门徒！
[The sannyasin answers: But I miss love... I miss it!]
o miss it; what can be done about it? Or fin who is even colder than you. One thing has to be settled, that you are whatsoever you are an is no way to be otherwise. The day you see this all misery will .
那就错过，你能怎么办？或者去找一个比你更冷漠的人。有件事你得解决：你是谁就是谁，你没办法不是。一旦你明白这一点，所有痛苦都会消失。
In that very seeing great bliss will arise in you, an then love will become possible and you warm up. Nobody knows. But you cannot do it, it can only happen. It will be a gift from god, not something man by you.
一旦你明白，你内心就会升起极乐，或许到时候爱会涌现，你温暖起来。没人知道。但你对此束手无策，它只能发生。它是来自神/上天的礼物，它不是你能操控的。
o just wait, an, enjoy! Whatsoever you can do, do an. I see that you can enjoy it perfectly.
所以等待，同时享受其中！你能做什么就做什么，同时享受其中。我看得出你能好好享受。
This idea also that you need love, this and that, comes from seeing other people. It is not really your idea; you are seeing that somebody is being loved an is holding hands an and they are in such love, and you feel you are m, you must be m something.
你需要爱等想法，来自于看到别人怎样。它其实并非你的心意，你看到有人被爱着，有人在握手、拥抱，他们彼此深爱，你便觉得自己错过了，你一定错过了什么。
This is just your . It is not your urge, because I don't see the urge anywhere. You are a born nun!...
这只是你的推理。它并非你最深的渴望，因为我完全看不到这个渴望。你是个天生的尼姑！
Yes! And to be a born nun is something beautiful. When somebody tries an a nun it is ugly, it is perversion.
是的！当个天生的尼姑很美。当有人试图成为尼姑时，这很丑陋，也很反常。
译自：OSHO Bel the Before Breakfast