适合才是真爱

　　适合才是真爱

　　重新看《瘦身男女》，感触良多。很多时候，我们都是在现实的生活中，因为自己的不够完美，错过最好的。但是往往又因为不甘心，然后想让自己更好更完美之后再去拥有，去重新追求。而在这途中，我们却总是与最合适的人不期而遇，然后执他人之手，与他人偕老。最爱的往往带不来天长地久，最合适的却总能厮守到老。因为懂得，所以谅解，因为相似，所以相知。因为一起经历过成长为完美的过程，所以彼此的最不好的一面彼此都知道，彼此都能包容。爱是爱慕包容彼此的不完美，完美的爱情总是虚无的，现实爱是不完美的结晶。一边埋怨一边厮守，一边互助，一边成长。恩爱就是互助的过程，互助才有恩，有恩才有爱。最美好的时光只适合停留在记忆当中。

　　FIT is true love

　　It was a great feeling to re read the Love on a Diet. Most of the time， we are in the real life， because of their imperfect, missed the best. But often because not reconciled, and then want to make their own better and more perfect to have, to re-pursue. But on the way, we always meet the most suitable person unexpectedly, and then take the hand of others, and grow old with others. The best ones don’t always Eternity, but the best ones always do. Because understand, so understanding, because similar, so know. Because we have been through the process of growing up to be perfect together, we both know the worst of each other and can tolerate each other. Love is love to contain each other’s imperfections, perfect love is always nihility, the reality of love is not perfect crystallization. Complaining while staying together, while helping each other, while growing up. Love is the process of mutual help, mutual help to have grace, grace to have love. The Best Times are only good for remembering.