爱与被爱，梦里着迷

　　爱与被爱，梦里着迷。

　　了解一个人的劣根性会造成自己痛苦，然而了解一个人的优点则会造成双方的痛苦，人性都是很贱的，拿别人的劣根性折磨自己，却用对方的优点折磨彼此，要求他好还要更好，哪一天他出了差错，你就穷追猛打。再深刻的了解都变成糟践。

　　在想着两人是否了解彼此之前，不如先好好了解自己想要的是什么。究竟是看透一个人重要？还是两人快快乐乐在一起重要？说不定，当你真正看透一个男人之后，你会宁可自己从来没有了解他。

　　人可以为了心爱的人变得坚强，也会懦弱地害怕失去眼前的幸福。人一懦弱就会选择妥协。在感情里最常见的妥协就是说谎，以及相信谎言。我们之间的感情渐被现实磨平，在一起相互折磨，却又狠不下心分手。两个人恋爱，是需要让步的，通常男人的退一步就是说谎，而女人的退一步就是相信谎言，没有谁对谁错，各自退一步。

　　一辈子很长，要跟有趣的人在一起。

　　To love and to be loved， to dream.

　　Understanding One’s bad nature will cause one’s own pain， but understanding one’s good will cause both sides pain, human nature is very cheap, take other people’s bad nature to torture oneself, but use each other’s good to torture each other, ask him to be better and even more than better, and the day he makes a mistake, you go after him and blame him. No matter how deep you understand each other insight it will always be gonnna make it worse. Before you think about whether or not you know each other, you might as well know what you want. Is it important to see through a person? Or is it more important for two people to be happy together? Perhaps, when you really see through a man, you will wish you had never known him. People can become strong for their loved ones, and will be afraid of losing the happiness of the moment. When you’re weak, you compromise. The most common compromises in relationships are lying and believing in lies. Our feelings between the ground by the reality, together to torture each other, but not the heart to break up. Two people love, is need to compromise, usually a man’s step back is lying, and a woman’s step back is to believe the lie, no one is right or wrong, both step back. A lifetime is a long time to be with interesting people.