Stoner读后感10篇
《Stoner》是一本由John Williams著作，Vintage Classics出版的Paperback图书，本书定价：GBP 8.99，页数：305，文章吧小编精心整理的一些读者的读后感，希望对大家能有帮助。
TONER可能是极少数让我看得如此入迷而又如此难受的小说之一。上一次有类似的感觉好像是看村上春树的1973年的弹珠游戏，不过那是另外一回事了。
toner无疑是一个世俗标准的懦弱者，一直在忍受，不管是在婚姻，家庭还是学校里。也许我是从中看出了一些自己的影子吧，抑或是联想到自己挣扎而又无能为力的现状，很有几次根本没办法看下去。
看完这本书我一直有个特别强烈的想法，作者John Williams没准儿看过围城，很多地方Stoner都像极了方鸿渐，还有学校里那个Stoner的死对头，瘸子Lomax也能看出口吃的韩学愈和歪脖陆子萧甚至李梅亭的影子。看到最后Stoner病入膏肓的时候反省自己的这一生，简直跟围城最后方鸿渐对自己婚姻和爱情的回顾如出一辙。甚至还有Katherine和唐晓芙,这个两个仅有的在书里都没有被作者忍心挖苦过一个字的女性角色。不过好像围城最早的英译本是在1979年出版的，那会儿STONER早就付梓了，这些应该是对人生百味洞若观火的两位智者无意中的共鸣吧。
其实Stoner也有很有过几次反抗，比如一开始受到到老师感召改学了文学;顶着舆论的压力没有报名参加一战;巧妙地让Lomax不得不放弃了在课程安排上对他的打压;当然最动人的一段还是他跟Katherine的婚外情，是全书最凄美的一章。看来不管古今中外，爱情能给人最大的勇气，哪怕是短暂的、大多数时候还是会被现实迅速击碎的爱情。
有时候对身边特别关心的人会有哀其不幸，怒其不争的想法，而对于有类似状态而又跟自己无关痛痒的人大家会说可怜之人必有可恨之处。你既然这样活着很痛苦，你就这样这样那样那样不就好了？其实仔细想想这跟那句著名的“何不吃肉糜？”很有些异曲同工。每个人都有自己没办法做到事，否则还有什么可纠结的。旁人轻巧的一个建议对当事人来说很可能就意味着翻天覆地，血流成河。
看书的时候也好几次有这样的焦急，有时候恨不得进到故事里抓住Stoner的领子用他脑袋使劲撞墙，你就放弃一切跟Katherine去一个全新的地方开始好了，还有什么可犹豫的？
quot;Because in the long run, it isn't Edith or Grace, or the certainty of losing Grace, that keeps me here; it isn't the scandal or the hurt to you or me; it isn't the hardship we would have to go through, or even the loss of love we might have to face. It's simply the destruction of ourselves, of what we do."
toner这样回答。
层层拨开以后，最后只有血淋淋的现实，一切的一切在现实面前都显得无能为力，不管是财富爱情宗教还是什么别的。书里的人物都在用自己的方式做着微小的抵抗，Edith的冷漠和疯狂，Lomax的无耻和狡诈，Grace的怀孕和逃离，甚至Gordon也用他的油滑和对朋友的忠诚在反抗着。不过都是徒劳，大家都在挣扎，同时也带给周围的人更多的挣扎。
在序言里，作序者引用了一段作者John Williams对Stoner的评价"I think he is a real hero..." 一下子让我想起了几年前在上海的酒吧里跟Brian和Jennifer聊天，Brian让我们每个人说一个自己心目中的英雄，不管是现实中的还是虚构的，忘记了Jennifer的答案，只记得Brian说的是Lord of the rings里的Sam Gamgee。因为他的忠诚和坚持才是胜利的关键。我说我的英雄是The catcher in the rye里的Holden Caulfield。那会我也说不清楚为什么会想到Holden，可能是那本书实在对我的人生观影响巨大。其实原因跟我现在这么喜欢这本书一样。Holden和Stoner一直在用自己的方式去反抗虚伪残酷的现实，还有这种现实想要强加给他们的生活。其实懦弱英雄的反抗方式很简单，抓住什么东西一直活着然后直面死亡。活着是为了对抗荒谬的现实，直面是为了不让死亡这个注定的终点剥夺了最后的一点儿尊严。
不是强者，不是伟人，不是哲人，甚至普通人看着他们的生活也会觉得悲惨。他们只是有着什么别人没有的东西。可能称他们为英雄也不太合适，这种称号其实是跟他们的人生哲学背道而驰的，也不能成为任何人的楷模之类的，因为这种东西应该是骨子里与生俱来的。
“请用一支玫瑰纪念我”，乌尔比诺医生的棋友在坦然赴死之前对他的情人说。
《Stoner》读后感(二)：关于人的存在
这篇小说非常成功地展现了一个普通人的生活，成功之处首先在于它突出了一个大学教师Stoner在现实中面临的各种矛盾，比如他一方面相信教育的意义，但另一方面也非常明确地看到教育的局限性；他渴望生命，渴望对现实做出改变，但同时又对生命怀有一种冷漠的态度，觉得现实无法改变；他热切地关怀着他人和自己的生活，但同时也对人性的缺陷感到无力和气馁；他自始至终坚持公平公正的原则，但当原则不得不向权力妥协的时候，我们也能够看到他的软弱和绝望。
在整部小说中，我们能看到知识如何改变人的命运，同时也能看到知识如何引人走向无知和懦弱；我们能看到一个充满爱和活力的生命，同时也能看到这些活力如何化为虚无；我们能看到追求理想的力量，同时也能看到放弃追求的痛苦和无奈。所有的这些矛盾都顺理成章地出现在这个普通人的生命里，让人感叹生命的复杂和个人的渺小。
但是，在这种貌似悲观的感叹中，最终随着时间沉淀下来的不是那种悲观的的情绪，而是一种对于生命本身的体认，也就是一种非常厚重的存在感。它让我们看到一个个体能够以一种什么样的姿态存在于这个庞大的世界，而不管这种姿态本身是好还是坏，它其实已经包含着对存在本身的肯定。
简单地说，这个人，他存在过，生活过；他的生活是复杂的，深刻的，有真实而强烈的感情，有过各种奋斗和抗争。他的生命存在于分分秒秒的感受，复杂到无法被某个标签所概括。他的一切所作所为，对错与否，早已不允许他人做出评价，因为只要我们足够深刻地理解了他行为背后的原因，任何评价都会显得肤浅和多余。
广泛地说，Stoner，还有我们身边的所有人，包括我们自己，其实都是作为一个人而存在。一个真正的人，从根本上讲，绝不仅仅是体制里的一个可有可无的工具。任何试图给一个人的生命下定义、贴标签的行为，从本质上讲，都是在否定生命本身。
所以说，这种作为人的存在，可以说就是生命的本质，而对于个体存在的认可和肯定，可能就是人类社会所能达到的理想境界。这部小说所有那些伤感的情节背后，其实是含有这么一个积极的信息。虽然小说写的是上世纪初的事情，但放在今天这个越来越功利、越来越忽视个体意义的社会里，甚至是放在中国，都依然有非常重要的意义。
《Stoner》读后感(三)：What did you expect?
toner
What did you expect？
你的生命该是什么样子。
第一次翻开这本书，是没能提起兴趣的。学术在我看来是一件颇为无趣的事，而使之更甚的是narrator与众不同的腔调，冷淡，平缓，质地坚硬。可这大概也是这本书不同凡响之处吧。近乎机械化一般的描摹，不带一丝感情色彩的叙述，生命就这样开始和结束。
二十岁的Stoner的全部世界是农场和土地，是劳作和汗水，是一种近乎执拗的执着和麻木，掩埋在土里，别无知觉。父亲将他送入大学，只为学得技术回家种田。第二年，Archer Sloane的课上他第一次领会到了美，出离地拥有了感知，凝固了时间。也是一种奢侈吧，简朴愚钝的生命中初次被点亮敲醒的那一刻，该是窒息般地令人神往。转专业。至此才真正开始他的人生。
他的生活变成大学，教书和研究。两位好友，Dave Masters，在随后的一战中很快消逝了；Gorden Finch，战后回到大学与他回到相似的轨迹，却其实也是大相径庭的。他们在酒馆的谈话，在这本书的开始便写出了所有的真相，大学实际上是他们的避难所，是对世界的对抗。Sloane在战时迅速地衰老了，Stoner看到他的脱离和嘲讽，看到他的痛惜和深爱，看到疯狂吞噬着年轻的生命，留下虚无，看到Sloane被太过深沉的情感耗空。
我们大概都在一边找寻自我，一边同世界建立某种联系，以此合理化自己的存在。
纵然抽离而淡漠，他爱。
他追寻了爱情，他与Edith初见，似是触到了一种精致的美好，但这感情是无法保存的，将他卷入失败而痛苦的婚姻。他投身学术，淡然的叙述下它对于学术的热爱和激情汹涌，似乎成为了生命燃烧的唯一支柱。他得到了友情，或许在他年轻还并未在意时早早逝去，或许陪同他走到人生尽头，他们是他得以与世界沟通的一线牵挂。他与Katherine的恋情是绝望中的极度快乐，还未开始便看到结局的故事，us against the world，二人相处时他找到了那个真正的自己，在四十岁边上，在世界的对立面。
然而最终留下的，他的一生没有值得注目的事件，最多也不过一本少人问津的中世纪文学手稿。
平平淡淡，起起伏伏，每个情节似乎是种调戏是个玩笑，在你暂得于己，刚刚发现了爱发现了快乐发现了某些意义，复又被阴冷潮水吞没，浇灭每一丝火光。那潮水一波波涌来，机械，空洞，裹挟着抽走所有温度。
我以为原来这便是生活。
无力感，是的，无力感。
For every pleasure given to his life, there appears attached a disproportionate tragedy.
大概也是我厌恶平淡的理由。不愿接受平淡规整的生活，不愿踏上能一眼望到尽头的旅程，不愿承认意义本身就没有意义。你期望什么呢？
就像总会贪恋冬日里的温暖那样，你还是会需要自己能够经历些什么，成为些什么，代表些什么。你会需要自己成为自己，一个可以安然对视的模样。
所以总还是要去活，不论生活是如何面目，或许最终仍是屌丝一生，足够欣喜便好。
《Stoner》读后感(四)：Stoner: A NOVEL
A great , beautiful and moving English novel I have read recently，as sweeping, intimate and mysterious as life itself. It is a biography of stoner, which describes the whole ordinary life of a diligent, academic and unexceptional man and ‘tells of the conflict, defeats and victories of human race that pass unrecorded by history, and reclaims the significance of an individual life’.‘To the older ones, his name is a reminder of the end that awaits them all, and to the younger ones it is merely a sound which evokes no sense of the past and no identity with which they can associate themselves or their careers’. Because of the author Willams’s gift for emotional precision, the novel elevates one man’s story into something universal or uncovers a story of universal life. Therfore we can find something of our life from the vivid deｓｃｒｉｐｔion of the life of stoner. Maybe it will be the future of my or your life. So I have read this novel with sympathetic reaction, an empathy that shows me why this unassuming life is worth living. Stoner with truthfulness, compassion and intense power is something rare and precious that should never be forgotten and should be forever savoured. I especially appreciate the following sentence in the books,‘that the person one loves at first is not the person one loves at last, and that love is not an end but a process through which one person attempts to know another’.
XIAN GENING
ortheast Normal University and Jilin University
May01，2015——May07, 2015
《Stoner》读后感(五)：A noble character
toner is normal person, but to me, he is a noble man. Beneath his clumsiness is his intensive affection and steady move I admire the most. Not many people know what they want exactly. But Stoner knows from the beginning and give his passion freely. He knows he like English literature and would dedicate to be a teacher. He knows he likes Edith the first they met although the marriage is a big failure. He knows he loves his daughter a lot though he is unable to save her from the battles. Yes, just like other lives, conflicts and battles do exits. And in this novel, Stoner doesn't look like a successor. However it seems to me that never did he want to be the winner, what he wants is that let him be himself. What he do will defined who he is.
It simply said: Look! I'm alive.
《Stoner》读后感(六)：You know William Stoner spent a quite interesting life that even himself didn't notice that...
The story took me only like 3 nights and 1 afternoon to process, it's actually quite amazing.
William Stoner presents us a life which seemed normal, sad, reserved, unfullfilled but after all, without considering about winning a marathon in life match or not, this is not the truth.
All the truth about life is tight struggles. It sometimes begins from a poor, awkward and timid background, that he just knew that his life started from no purpose. A simple purpose to start campus life is not even a little about the eager to change the original life given by parents, but something pure and native.
Then it came to appear like an adventure which described like "nothing special". Eventually, Stoner got a position in university, it was not even close to a "career". It was simply like a passive acceptance of "what happens is without extra efforts". Eventually, Stoner was in a circle of fellows, which looked like friendship or its just simple gatherings. Eventually, Stoner was in love and got married, and had kid. All these main stream of life is no other but fixed ｓｃｒｉｐｔ.
Why Stoner was different and remarkable. And he was not.
I see the sparkle because like everyone else in this world, we feel strongly about the intimate and persistent friendship that could sustain us from the struggle and competition among humanity. we also feel strongly about the happy marriage and long existing passion that we might have from our spouses. We long for true love that it never gets lost in the chaos and disapointment in life itself. We want to have a career which represent who am I. And we even dream about the candor, or some definite purity.
What Stoner did, instead of achieved, was all about these.
The most exciting parts of the novel leaded to the questions which Stoner proposed at the defense of Walker's. Candor you may say. However, it was the truly delightful and self faithful for a man when he standed for knowledge and research. It was a battle between two kinds of people-- if you respect the knowledge or not. Respecting for knowledge is something that Stoner never wanted to lose from politics and threatens. The consequence was the failure in promotion, the unfair treatment work allocation... Stoner didn't lose it at all. He was the winner, when he stand proudly in front of his belief, in front of literature, in front of Shakespeare, in front of the truth.
And actually he fought back and he wined of course. He walked straight into the junior class which was the only place he ruled. He refused the textbooks which were regulated, and just started lecturing in a composed and relaxed way of his own. The challenge and the revenge which I believe, had made all readers excited and mad.
About love, about Katherine, I think when Stoner finally touched the book she published to demonstrate to W.S. It was everything about fulfillment. It was everything about great love.
obody should miss Stoner ever when he is bored about daily life, routines, works or gets lost to approach success, love and hope. It is always more interesting than you ever imagine. And it is always covered by the veil of "day-to-day". You are the only one to unveil and discover the truth about yourself even before you actually notice it.