亲爱的女孩，你真的该醒过来了。
亲爱的女孩，你真的该醒过来了。
开始尝试了解自己，改变自己，把时间花在自己身上，真正去打磨自己让自己成长一个优秀的大人。
◆01．开始置顶自己的感受
不管全世界所有人怎么说，我都认为自己的感受才是正确的。无论别人怎么看我，我都绝对不会打乱自己的节奏。
◆02．接受发生的一切事情
接受分道扬镳，接受世事无常，接受孤独挫败，接受困惑焦虑和遗憾，接受突如其来的无力感，接受自己的不完美，调整自己的状态，找到继续前行的力量。
◆03．把注意力放在自己身上
多花点心思和时间在自己身上，不仅能变成美女，还能少去99％的烦恼，咱就是说姐妹们，做个又美又能搞钱的女孩子真的太香了。
04．去做自己真正喜欢的事情一定要争取去做自己爱的事情，因为爱而产生的能量，有时候是你无法可以预估的，所以想做什么就大胆的去尝试吧，我们还年轻长长的人生可以有一点风浪。
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05．不要再焦虑自己的爱情
你不必嫁给焦虑，不必嫁给标准，不必嫁给妥协。如果不是和一个对的人，那所谓的合适都没有了意义。
06．任何时候保持经济独立
一个女孩子手里有钱才会有底气，父母给的只是背景，只有自己努力才是真的本事。多学点技能让自己在事业上越来越好。
Dear girl， you really need to wake up. Start trying to understand yourself， change yourself, spend time with yourself, and really hone yourself to become a better adult. 01. Start putting your feelings on top no matter what everyone in the world says, I think my feelings are the right ones. No matter what people think of me, I will never break my rhythm. 02. Accept the things that happen, accept the ways in which we go our separate ways, accept the uncertainty, accept the frustration of loneliness, accept the confusion, anxiety and regret, accept the sudden sense of powerlessness, accept your imperfections, and adjust your state of being, find the strength to keep going. 03. By paying attention to yourself and spending more time on yourself, you can not only become a beautiful woman, but you can also eliminate 99% of your worries. Let’s just say, girls, being a beautiful, money making girl really smells good. 04. To do what you really love, you must strive to do what you love, because the energy generated by love is sometimes unpredictable, so do what you want to do, we’re young, we’ve got our whole lives ahead of us. Stop worrying about your love you don’t have to marry anxiety, you don’t have to marry standards, you don’t have to marry compromise. Fit doesn’t mean anything if it’s not with the right person. 06. Any time a girl has money in her hand, she will have confidence. Her parents only give her background. Only her own efforts are real skills. Learn more skills and get better at your career.